CHANGESTO NEW YORK INSURANCE LAW AFFECT DIVORCING COUPLES

 Two recent changes to New York state insurance law will have a substantial impact on couples divorcing and separating. Those changes, signed into law on July 29, 2009, are:

1.    COBRA coverage will now be available in New York for 36 months.

 

2.    Families can now keep dependents on their insurance policies until age 29.

Of course, neither of these new laws apply to self-insured companies.

The practical effect of these extensions of insurance coverage will be to increase the value (or cost) of insurance coverage for divorcing couples, and therefore the impact and importance of insurance coverage as a issue to be considered and resolved in any divorce action.

For more information on New York state divorce law, please visit my website at www.GabayLawFirm.com

NEW YORK STATE JUDGE GRANTS SAME SEX DIVORCE FOR FIRST TIME

In an historic decision, a New York State Supreme Court Justice in Broome County has granted a lesbian couple a divorce. In her decision, Justice Molly Fitzgerald granted the request of Lauren Wells-Weiss to divorce her partner, Shari Weiss. The women were married in Canada in 2004. Shari Weiss was represented by Joseph Meagher. Lauren Wills-Weiss was represented by Judith Osburn.

This decision appears to be the first time a trial judge in New York has approved a same sex divorce.

 

I spoke with Judith Osburn today, and according to her here is what happened in the case:  Shari Weiss filed a partition action against Lauren Wells-Weiss regarding a home they shared together but which Shari bought about 3 months before the marriage.  Lauren counter-claimed for divorce.  The Court eventually determined that it would try the partition action before the divorce case and would not allow Lauren to make equitable distribution claims concerning the home.  That decision paved the way for a settlement of the divorce action.

 

The stipulation in the case was placed on the record orally on March 12 or 13.  The Court accepted the stipulation, and the parties are now submitting the final judgment of divorce to the Court.

 

I wonder what effect this decision will have on the pending actions for divorce among same sex couples, including one case I am now handling in Suffolk County. Perhaps it will be the end of the debate on the question of whether same sex divorce in New York is permissible. Or, it might be the beginning of a process which will ultimately be settled by the Court of Appeals. 

 

I also know that there are many other attorneys working on similar cases throughout the state.

HOW TO FIND AND HIRE A DIVORCE LAWYER

Finding right attorney for your family law matter requires asking specific questions to determine which attorney may be best for you. Choosing the wrong attorney may ultimately you a great deal of time, stress, and money in the end.

Divorce can be an intimidating process.  There is no area of the law which cases requires more paperwork or forms, and which involves as much raw human emotion. As a result, a divorce proceeding can be confusing, time consuming, and often, very costly financially and emotionally. As a result, choosing a lawyer may be the most important decision you make in your entire case.

Not every lawyer is a good fit for every person. You must be sure that your philosophy of how to approach and handle your case matches the temperament and practice philosophy of your lawyer. As a result, you must ask questions that reflect your specific concerns.

A good lawyer will:

-help you to understand and focus on the issues of your divorce without losing sight of the emotional nature of the proceedings;

-help you to prepare for court proceedings in advance;

-provide prompt and courteous responses to your questions;

-provide information and methods to help you reduce your legal fees.

To choose an attorney you should find more than one candidate to interview. The best way to find a good lawyer is to ask for a recommendation from someone you know and trust. However, don't just get names form your friends.  Instead, ask them detailed questions regarding the specific strengths and weaknesses of the attorneys they recommend. If you still need more prospects, you may locate a lawyer through your local bar association's attorney referral service or through an internet listing service.

Remember that finding lawyers is only the first step. A referral service simply compiles a listing of attorneys in your geographic without screening the attorneys listed for reputation or experience. You must still interview your attorney to determine whether he or she is qualified and whether his or her philosophy fits with your own.

Interviewing candidates

It is important to remember that not every lawyer is appropriate for every client. It is important that your philosophy matches that of your attorney. Nothing is worse than feeling like your interests are not being represented or that you are being bullied into a settlement. The lawyer is there to provide you with advice on the legal issues and to plan strategies regarding the presentation of the case. However, the ultimate decisions regarding the legal issues are yours alone.

Remember, it is your case!

Most lawyers will offer a free initial consultation. You should speak with the lawyers that you intend to interview in advance regarding any costs associated with your first meeting. Meeting with a lawyer may seem intimidating. To ensure that you are prepared, you may wish to make out a list of questions or points that you would like to raise in the interview. Additionally, if you have already been served legal papers, bring them to the interview along with any correspondence or other relevant documents. This will allow the lawyer to assess the potential issues in your case.

Some questions you may wish to ask include the following:

-How long have you been a lawyer?
-What is your primary area of practice?
-Do you have any other practice areas?
-What percentage of your caseload is dedicated to divorce?
-Have you handled cases with issues similar to mine?
-Do you have a heavy caseload and do you have time for my case?
-Have you handled many divorce cases in my county?
-What is the divorce process in my county?
-What are the likely obstacles and issues in my case?
-What are my alternatives in resolving the issues?
-Is there any process you would recommend and why?
-Approximately how long will the process take?
-What are your rates and how often will you bill me?
-What are the costs I can expect in this case?
-What are the legal fees I can expect in this case?
-Will the lawyer accept payments on any outstanding balance?
-How will you keep me informed of the progress in my case?
-What kind of approach do think is appropriate and why -aggressive and unyielding, or cooperative?
-Who else in the office will be working on my case and what is their rate?
-Is there anything I can do to keep my legal fees down?

Selecting your lawyer

When interviewing lawyers, you should listen carefully to the answers provided. However, equally important to assess the lawyer's personality. How does he or she make you feel? Confident? Frightened? Is the lawyer willing to spend time with you and provide answers at the initial meeting in a friendly manner? How you feel about your lawyer may affect your ability to communicate effectively with that person over emotional and highly personal matters. After each interview, assess the strengths and weaknesses of the candidate. Did the lawyer listen to you? Did the lawyer provide enough information to make you feel comfortable that he or she knew the law and procedure in your state and county? Did you feel confident?

To discuss your divorce or family law matter or schedule a free initial consultation, please call my office at 631-467-4177 or e-mail me at DavidAGabay@aol.com

WIFE MAY USE INSTANT MESSAGE EVIDENCE FOUND ON COMPUTER IN DIVORCE CASE

A trial judge in New York City recently ruled in Moore v. Moore that a wife seeking a divorce can use evidence of her husband’s internet activities with another woman which she found on a computer she took from her husband’s car.

The Moore’s were married in 1963, and are now retired. He was an information technology consultant and she was a school teacher.

 In Moore,  the wife took a laptop computer out of her husband’s car just before she commenced her divorce case. According to the wife’s attorney, she was searching the computer for financial information when she came upon a large number of salacious instant messages which the husband exchanged with a woman in Texas.   The wife’s attorney told the husband’s attorney she had the computer, and the parties agreed to make copies of the computer’s hard drive. The materials found on the hard drive were repeatedly referred to by the wife in affidavits submitted to the Court without objection by the husband. Eventually, the case was transferred to another judge, and the defendant moved to suppress the contents of the hard drive.

The Court denied the motion, finding that the wife die not commit a crime or otherwise violate the husband’s rights in taking the computer and copying its contents. The Court noted that the attorneys for the parties specifically agreed to copy the hard drive, and the defendant did not move to suppress the contents of the computer when the wife first bean referring to items found on the computer in at least two (2) affidavits she submitted to the Court at least six (6) months prior to his suppression motion.

The Court determined that the computer was a family computer as claimed by the wife and not a work computer as alleged by the husband. The Court also found that the taking of the computer was appropriate since it was done before the commencement of the case and the machine was taken from the family car. Finally, the Court also noted that the parties agreed in writing and through their attorneys that the computer’s hard drive should be copied and made available to both sides.

This case is another interesting example of the way in which computers and technology affect divorce and family law cases. It is also a reminder that some people will do a lot of preparation and planning prior to beginning a divorce-remember, the wife was searching for financial information on the computer when she stumbled upon the explicit instant  messages.